when men feels relationship just isnt working
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when men feels relationship just isnt working
The One Thing That Can Make A
Man Feel Like A Relationship Just
Isn’t Working- And Leave
Man Feel Like A Relationship Just
Isn’t Working- And Leave
the most important reason women have a hard time making a relationship work with a man.
It’s not what you may think.
It’s NOT that men are all messed up, or that there is a shortage of good men out there to begin with.
But if you’re a woman who keeps having the same recurring relationship problems with men, then you might start to think you’re some kind of “wrong guy magnet.”
so many women feeling this way… who then suddenly had their “luck” change as soon as they started doing just a few of the right things with men.
*Hint- their life didn’t change because their “man curse” was lifted.
If you’ve ever had that frustrating feeling like you somehow attract all the wrong men… I just don’t believe you have that kind of supernatural ability to identify the one “wrong man” with the same messed up issues out of a crowd of good ones.
The answer is much much simpler.
If you’re feeling like a magnet for bad men and failed relationships… your problem isn’t just WHO you pick.
It’s HOW you go about moving forward in your relationship with men.
If you don’t understand why a man wants a relationship in the first place, or what it means to HIM, then you’re wasting your energy with men.
Which leads to a pearl of wisdom no woman should be without…
The #1 Truth About Men In Relationships
If you don’t know what a man is looking for in a relationship, and what makes him feel great about staying with you… it’s likely that you’re unintentionally making the man you’re with feel like a FAILURE in your relationship.
And not just once in a while- you’re doing this in lots of small ways day in and day out that you haven’t even been conscious of before now.
This is a HUGE MISTAKE to make with a man, and it’s also this all important truth about men-
When a man feels like a failure, he will simply stop giving to your relationship.
Stop and think about this for a second.
Think about how this has been true for you with men in your past relationships.
a man to feel like a failure…
When a man feels attracted to a woman and chooses her as the one woman he wants… part of what keeps drawing him closer to her is how easy it feels to be with her and make her happy.
This is the “honeymoon” stage of a relationship.
But when relationship issues come up, “buttons” are pushed, and arguments start… most men are at a loss. They don’t know how to handle it. In fact, often times they don’t even know what’s going on or where all this intense emotional stuff is coming from. They just know that they don’t like it.
What women often say to men at these times is received not as an effort to do good for the relationship, but as a CRITICISM.
And criticism quickly makes a man feel like a failure. A failure at making his woman happy the way he used to so easily. And a failure at being simply WHO HE IS as a man.
When this kind of thing starts, a man feels like he can’t “win” with you.
And once a guy starts to feel this way, you can’t “fix it.” You can only know exactly what this is and what it looks like, and stop doing it…
Or… like lots of other women mistakenly do…
You can continue to push and poke and question him more, which only makes him feel like more of a failure in your eyes and pull farther away.
When this kind of thing starts happening for you with your man… something changes for him in the relationship. And as much as you might not want it to be true… he is actually the one who feels confused about why your relationship isn’t working and is so unnecessarily hard.
And this makes him question whether or not he should even BE in a relationship with you.
Don’t let this cycle spiral out of control anymore and drag you and your relationships with men down, when it doesn’t have to be this way.
The #2 Truth About Men In Relationships
I’ll tell you something true about a good man-
In this day in age, a good man doesn’t need a long-term relationship.
A good man might WANT one, if the right woman is in his life.
But he doesn’t NEED one.
The only relationship a man “needs” is the kind that makes him feel like a stronger, better, wiser and more important man.
A man wants and needs to feel like a HERO in your relationship if he’s going to stay for the long haul.
Unfortunately, lots of men aren’t feeling this way in relationships and it’s causing them to act out or withdraw from their relationship in frustration.
If a man doesn’t feel like a hero with you, and instead feels like a constant or semi-consistent FAILURE, then from experience I can tell you…
It won’t last.
And it only takes a few moments to shock a man into “failure mode” where he’ll start questioning everything and stop trying with you.
Don’t let this happen if you love each other. Let me show you how to avoid “accidentally” making him feel like a failure and how to communicate your painful or negative emotions to him in a way so he’ll LISTEN and feel like a HERO.
I’ll help you avoid one of the biggest reasons men leave women they love, by increasing your understanding of what it takes to make him feel utterly DEVOTED to your happiness instead.
And you won’t have to ignore your own needs and feelings in the process…
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Re: when men feels relationship just isnt working
Hmmm gym seems pretty impressed by u linsay nice post sister. . Very interesting reading
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Re: when men feels relationship just isnt working
lovely...i had to concentrate so much to get it realized
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Eish aktel it's pretty straightforward . . Guess yr mind was preoccupied with someone that's why
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Re: when men feels relationship just isnt working
kooool
you seem to have good knowledge about how to keep men happy
you seem to have good knowledge about how to keep men happy
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Cinderella wrote:Eish aktel it's pretty straightforward . . Guess yr mind was preoccupied with someone that's why
i don't think i was thinking about anyone lmfao
this is really an awsome post...i wanted to get the gists properly
so i concentrated hard
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Priety nice post..Linnasy Thanks alot keep going.... i thnk i read ths topic already at magazin.. I Dnt remember where...And when..!! Anyway nice
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Re: when men feels relationship just isnt working
Nice n impressive post linnsay
*Forgive avoid double posting
*Forgive avoid double posting
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Re: when men feels relationship just isnt working
wOw linnsay that was a very well-thought out post one thing that i familiarized with immediately is the world "Failure".I guess all men hates failing in anything,i certainly know that i do anyways
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v nice post!!
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