Flirting Tips
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Flirting Tips
by true_frnd Mon Sep 15, 2008 4:47 am
Women are so much more subtle about flirting clues that men need to
really pay attention. Ladies, men are not used to women flirting with
them. An overwhelming majority of men said they would just love it if a
woman would talk to them first or at least express a larger clue that
you were interested in checking them out.
#1: Repeated contact...at least three separate verbal
or non-verbal clues need to be given. Why? The first time he's going to
look around and make sure it's really him that you are flirting with.
The second, he knows it's him and he gets flushed and pleased. (At this
point he'll probably walk by you and at least smile..he's checking you
out a little more.) The third time you can express interest-by
introducing yourself, or commenting on his tie, or waving from across
the room. Now he knows you are open to meeting and it will be a cinch. #2: Whisper...it always gets their attention. Ask them
if you can tell them a secret...Then whisper in their ear: 'I just love
your tie...can I buy it from you when you are done with it?' #3: Don't sit with other women...men don't want you to
reject them in front of an audience. If you do go out with a
friend...separate every so often or take a breather from talking...men
do not want to risk your disapproval by interrupting you. (You have
already missed out on a lot of quality polite men who didn't want to
interrupt.) #4: Treat men gently...If someone you are not
interested in approaches you and flirts ...be nice.... All the other
men are watching to see what you do. If you laugh after he leaves or
show visual disapproval, you are cutting your chances on anyone else
approaching you. Try shaking his hand and saying something like: 'It
was so nice of you to approach me...what's your name? Tom? Tom, I know
how hard it is to meet people...I might have a girlfriend who would be
interested in you.' #5: IF he acts like a JERK! Be polite but firm. Hand
him a copy of the men's version of 'Flirting with Greatness' and ask
him to go practice on someone else. Firmly say that 'lines' with sexual
overtones are not only not attractive to you but to most other women in
the world. #6: Use the Buddy system. Walk through a group of men and have someone watch to see who's checking you out.
#7: Become More Irresistible! Show a little leg....wear
higher heels...the redder the lipstick the more available and
noticeable you will be. Arch your back a little as you sit up tall and
cross your legs high. Wear earrings that are interesting enough to make
someone comment on them. #8: Look over your shoulder...and smile at him. This asymmetrical position is always a signal you are interested.
#9: Give him a look all over from head to toe - nod with approval and then flash him your most winning smile.
#10: Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Be generous! Have Fun!
really pay attention. Ladies, men are not used to women flirting with
them. An overwhelming majority of men said they would just love it if a
woman would talk to them first or at least express a larger clue that
you were interested in checking them out.
#1: Repeated contact...at least three separate verbal
or non-verbal clues need to be given. Why? The first time he's going to
look around and make sure it's really him that you are flirting with.
The second, he knows it's him and he gets flushed and pleased. (At this
point he'll probably walk by you and at least smile..he's checking you
out a little more.) The third time you can express interest-by
introducing yourself, or commenting on his tie, or waving from across
the room. Now he knows you are open to meeting and it will be a cinch. #2: Whisper...it always gets their attention. Ask them
if you can tell them a secret...Then whisper in their ear: 'I just love
your tie...can I buy it from you when you are done with it?' #3: Don't sit with other women...men don't want you to
reject them in front of an audience. If you do go out with a
friend...separate every so often or take a breather from talking...men
do not want to risk your disapproval by interrupting you. (You have
already missed out on a lot of quality polite men who didn't want to
interrupt.) #4: Treat men gently...If someone you are not
interested in approaches you and flirts ...be nice.... All the other
men are watching to see what you do. If you laugh after he leaves or
show visual disapproval, you are cutting your chances on anyone else
approaching you. Try shaking his hand and saying something like: 'It
was so nice of you to approach me...what's your name? Tom? Tom, I know
how hard it is to meet people...I might have a girlfriend who would be
interested in you.' #5: IF he acts like a JERK! Be polite but firm. Hand
him a copy of the men's version of 'Flirting with Greatness' and ask
him to go practice on someone else. Firmly say that 'lines' with sexual
overtones are not only not attractive to you but to most other women in
the world. #6: Use the Buddy system. Walk through a group of men and have someone watch to see who's checking you out.
#7: Become More Irresistible! Show a little leg....wear
higher heels...the redder the lipstick the more available and
noticeable you will be. Arch your back a little as you sit up tall and
cross your legs high. Wear earrings that are interesting enough to make
someone comment on them. #8: Look over your shoulder...and smile at him. This asymmetrical position is always a signal you are interested.
#9: Give him a look all over from head to toe - nod with approval and then flash him your most winning smile.
#10: Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Be generous! Have Fun!
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