Love n marriage

Several times i've read this . . WEN MARRIAGE KNOCKS ON THE DOOR LOVE FLIES OUTTA THE WINDOW. . how many of u think this is true? Pls give yr opinion

exactly pypsy !!!
i feel the saying very true
especially guys do that u know ... fall in love ... make the most of it and when it comes to marry they make excuses
my mom doesnt agree ... my dad doesnt agree ... my family doesnt agree ... you live so far off ... you belong to a different cast lol these are some of the examples that i have heard of !!!

well i dont agree with it ... coz when my gurl asked for it ... i sent the proposal straight away lol ...
it depends if the person really luvs their partner .. these days people flirt & play around in the name of love ... which is not exactly love but its infatuation or just a time pass nnuthing more ... very few people know what is the meaning of true love .. !
its not fullfillin ur needs or desires .... u luv a person when u think about them first,when u really care for their feelings and walk together for a long journey ahead which is marriage ... i am always prepared to do anything for her and so is she .... i thannk ALLAH for giving me such a lovely life partner .. !

Wow inspecta hats off to u . . My respect for u just grew in leaps n bounds. . I wish u every happiness with yr life partner ameen

well, its true love does become less after marriage....

but, try to remember old days, how much you two love each other.. how much you care...

i m married, it was love marriage.. at first, it was difficult to adjust.. but, now everything is okay we love each other, as we did be4

gypsy- wrote:Wow inspecta hats off to u . . My respect for u just grew in leaps n bounds. . I wish u every happiness with yr life partner ameen

thnks gypsy ...

and tears ...i never knew u were married

i m dude we got married this year 21st feb

Wow tears i wish u every happiness too. . There is nothing more heartwarming than marrying your sweetheart . . U guys r positively lucky

tears_of_cry wrote:i m dude we got married this year 21st feb

oh dats great ... congrats buddy ... ! wheres the treat ?!

Lol tears. . N we want treat with interest. . For every month u've been married we want a dish . . Since feb to sept makes it. . Ummm 7 months. . That's seven treats. . Start with three tiered fruit cake with lotsa icing, n choco eclairs with vanilla cream. . And a trifle pudding n strawberries n almond flakes n pizza n fruit icecream. . Lol

lol gypsy...seems like you love eating a lot

I love food lol just love to hog on good food

u cant blame either the guy or the girl.. maybe the reasn for this is that both of them think that as now they r married he/she will b always there no matter wht. n this is the reason why the spark of love goes off.

Well i think the worst thing that u can do to a person is to take him/her for granted. . Then it comes as a shock wen one day you find out that the person's feelings for u have died

opps... long list umm, let me try to cock them

and, gypsy, you got a valuable point... we should value our love, we shouldn't avoid our loved one after achieving... coz, achieving is easy, but most hard part is to go with that achievement

I think its because both expect alot from each other before marriage.
Before marriage they can see just good points/qualities of each other and after marriage burden of resposibilites i think its a big reason of love death.
Both partner can understand each other as lover but after marriage lots of thing come between them like job in laws n both of them feel that his/her partner dont love them now.

Maybe lunacy . . Or maybe the saying familiarity breeds contempt is really true. . But it's true that many a man begin treating their princess sweetheart like a doormat wife. . Appreciation takes a back seat. . Well,i guess each individual couple is a different case study

**darkslayer_x lets out a long sigh. siiiiiiigggghhh**

It all depends on both sides.

It's true that most of the times, guys avoid the marriage, but so do girls.

And that type of actions totally puzzle me.
why you start loving someone when you know that it has no future??

For me, I will definitely choose a girl to love whom i can marry in future.

best of luck to me!!

Lol dark u don choose who to love . . It just happens. . As the french call it . . Like a clap o lightening. . However, best of luck to u

nothing to say..but just this=on the first page all are THE MODERATORS posts..just see

shehroze wrote:nothing to say..but just this=on the first page all are THE MODERATORS posts..just see

umm.. at that time cindi was not a mod

Eish. . U are Correct cry dear . .but back to the topic i'd say for marriages to last a modicum of trust is necessary cuz trust is the foundation of every relationship from bond between parent n child to marriage between a girl n boy

theres only one i can say..this is somewhat a joke but in other way around this is sometimes true..

Before marriage.....

He: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait.
She: Do you want me to leave?
He: No! Don't even think about it.
She: Do you love me?
He: Of course! Over and over!
She: Have you ever cheated on me?
He: No! Why are you even asking?
She: Will you kiss me?
He: Every chance I get.
She: Will you hit me?
He: Are you crazy! I'm not that kind of person!
She: Can I trust you?
He: Yes.
She: Darling!

After marriage....
Simply read from bottom to top.

lol linnsay ur thread should have been posted in jokes section. It really made me laugh. I have LOL'ed long time while reading it out.

most girls seem to have misconception about guys. Dont know what makes you girls thinking that way.

the same way, guys coould accuse girls that they change after marriage.

anyways back to the topic,

Marriage itself is loaded. there are so many factors and elements that feed into a marriage that breaking it down seems impossible at times. One of the biggest questions people have is "why has my partner changed so much from the person they were when I get married with him/her.


to me, Of course the most obvious answer is that people are constantly changing and growing, but it goes deeper than that. When you first meet a person you are attracted to their outside self and personality, however, this can often be completely different, or at least removed, from whom they are internally.

Marriage generally constitutes many, many years together. as a consequence, all facades, all barriers fall away, leaving a person's true self exposed. And often, a person's true self takes their partners by surprise, it is not what they have come to expect.This feeling of foreignness can lead to the dissolution of a marriage


Positive or negative, learning who your partner really is can be part of the fun of being married,

and it is always an exploration.i think the couple should Consider taking your time and getting to know the person you're with before you get married.

these days people go to marriage therapist to sort out their problem.

finally I would say, Before marriage, the relation is fancy and fascination and kind of unreal romantic feelings. But after marriage it comes to reality.

Lol linsay funny . .but We've that joke posted in jokes section by roma already A couple of weeks ago. . Hmmm love is fantasy marriage is reality. . Love is dating marriage is responsibility. . However,wen u love someone i think even the most mundane of chores like dish washing can become romantic lol. . But why cant a married couple fantasize or go on dates? I think every marriage is unique in it's own way n married couples should make an active effort to cultivate n keep alive the flames of their passion burning