My real friend ...

Well guys i wanted to discuss something with u all ...
Here it goes
I have a friend sana she lives with me in the UK
She was in love with a guy from pakistan
This guy kept lieing to her so much , may be their past was a lie itself
Each time she beleived on him and each time he hurt her badly
Then after sometime she spoke to him over this one day but she found him negative , she felt that he was neither sincere with her nor was gonna marry her
Each time she asked him to tell his family abt her and everytime he came up with new excuses
She still kept loving him with all her heart and soul
She waited for him the whole month but there was no news on him
Days passed waiting for him eagrly
After some days she found his email telling her that he would not be in her life anymore she was shocked and committed suicide but luckily her mum took her to the doctor and she started living like she had no soul
One day she got to check her msn and found him there begging for mercy and asking her to go back to him
He made her speak to his mother and doing every single task to get her
Now she is confused and worried wether to beleive him or just let life move how its moving now sad,alone,unstable
She asked me to help her out as she has so many doubts in her mind if it was his mother or not , if he is flirting with , if he hurt her again and so on


Its all abt her life
What do u think guys
Should she go back to him or leave him like he did ???

well...i went through a definition that states that,marry someone who loves you but don't marry whom you love!!! Roma,going through your post i got feeling that possibly that guy realised his faults!! but still i am confused whether your friend should go back to him or not....who knows,that guy might be changed again!! your friend still got the time for the recovery but what would happen after getting married?? misunderstading might lead them to get divorced!!! so its better to consult with her parents i guess since they know her better than anyone else as well as they are vastly experienced! may Almighty bless her!

Come on guys u cant be that mean
Suggest me something to tell her

No one perfect in this world..

Roma_, i dnt know y the guy hate ur frnd,
in this regard we cant discuss our meanings and its a life.
my goodness, ur friend rescued.
alhamdulillah...

how she can beleive
in future the same thing will not happened?

@ aktel.786=> um agree with ur points

final decession with her parents, and let her to agree with her parents decession.

some times love needs a second chance...
it's good that he realised his mistake but he also needs to realise that his first email to her breaking up almost cost him and her loved ones her life..he planted seeds of doubt in her head so definitly she won't trust him instantly...
if he's willing to compromise maybe the two can work out...
after all it's feeling involved...
we cant tell whats going to happen in the future...
and would it be good for her to marry another and think about what life would be like if she married him instead???

i dun think that guy worth her trust anymore. he shouldnt be given another chance. your friend appeared to be very sensitive....if this time she is going to be deceived i dont think she could control herself.

But if that guy seems to be changed and she still loves her could get another chance. Anyway still i think that guy should be observed carefully if he really cares about her or not.

anyway Roma i wish all the best for your friend.